Personality traits

It's funny, but there are certain personality traits that I possess, that when I see them in other people, that are just down-right annoying. In the other person, that is.

For example, I can be just a little pushy. I know this, and I do try to keep it reined in. But pushiness in other people gets on my last nerve. Saturday night, I was at a get-together at a co-worker's house, and another co-worker was being so pushy. She was telling our hostess where to set the food, started moving stuff around, telling the host how to grill the shish kebobs, etc. It was horrible! Later that evening, I was apologizing once again to another co-worker for not inviting her to my "fun party" that I had thrown Thursday night, and explaining that I thought she would have been offended at the whole concept of the fun party. I didn't invite anyone without first checking with 3 or 4 other people if they thought the potential invitee would come to this type of party, or would be absolutely horrified at the thought. Well, pushy woman butts into the conversation, and says, "WE didn't want to invite people who would be ....." I cut her off there. There was no "We" to it. It was my party, if I offended anyone, then I'm sorry.

But the sheer ballsy-ness of her! Surely, I'm not that annoying when I'm being pushy. Ha ha!