Thursday, November 08, 2007

Couple of questions and some ramblings

1) This morning, on my local radio station, during "Intern Adam's 57 seconds of sleaze", Adam was talking about Nicole Kidman at the CMA awards last night. He commented on how Keith & Nicole were sitting up front, and during the breaks, record company people and others would come over to say hi to Keith, as they had not seen him prior to rehab. Keith would stand up to hug the people, and would turn to introduce them to Nicole. Intern Adam's big beef was that Nicole did not stand up to greet these people; instead she just shook hands with them while she was sitting down. IA says maybe Nicole should learn some manners and stand up to greet people so they won't think she's some stuck up actress who hasn't had a hit movie in a couple of years.

My question: I thought proper etiquette did not require a female to stand when being introduced to someone. Does anyone think it was rude of Nicole to not stand up every time when being introduced to someone who came over to talk with her husband? I know *I* don't always stand up to shake hands with someone I'm being introduced to.

2) This is rather random, but does anyone know if Batman actually had any super powers? Or was he just good in a fight and had lots of gadgets?

3) Stinkerbelle came through her surgery to be spayed just fine. She took her stitch out that first night. I don't know why they didn't put in another. They told me to just watch her incision and make sure it doesn't open up. So far, so good. They also told me to keep her from jumping if I could. OK, sure. First, there is not one room in this house I could put her in, that there's not something she could/would jump on. Second, she is now going out of her way to jump on things. For example, when she wants to go from the living room into the kitchen (which requires passing through the dining room, where the computer is), instead of going under my chair or behind my chair while I'm at the computer, she jumps on my lap, hops up on my chest to walk across, hops down on the desk, and then on to the floor.

4) I finally bought her a scratching post. I don't know why I hadn't done this sooner. This one has a little tube (the diameter is roughly the size of a straw) that has a string with two toys tied on each end passing through. She LOVES this thing. I had bought her a new teaser toy, but it freaked her out. Every time I would get it out for her, she would hiss, and run off. I also bought her a bed to sleep in. I think she may have slept in it for about 5 minutes one morning. Maybe she lays in it during the day when I'm not home.

5) I've had lots of things I want to blog about, but by the time I get home (assuming I can even pry DS off the computer then), I've forgotten what my ideas were.

10 comments:

Bravie said...

I don't know if I think it is rude to stay seated or not. I usually at least come out of my seat a little bit when meeting someone. But I don't think I would find it rude if someone didn't get up to greet me. A handshake is fine.
Glad that stinkerbelle came through just fine.
I don't blog so much lately. Haven't had the time.
*smooch*

momma said...

I don't know that it's rude, but I think it would be a nice gesture to at least rise a bit to meet someone new - especially if they are important to your hubby's career. BUT...I was also raised with "Southern" manners and in my mind, a handshake is enough for just about any introduction.

Yay for Stinkerbelle! She sounds like a typical kitty to me.

I've been trying to blog more...I need to use it to "escape" and connect sometimes more than othertimes.

*smooch*

Puffy said...

Nicole Kidman probably doesn't stand up because she's about a foot taller than her husband.

I don't know anything about Batman.

Yay for Stinkerbelle!

MM said...

I have no idea on the etiquette for females standing up. If there were many people coming over though, I'd get tired of constantly standing. Seems too formal, to me.

Batman had the ability to scale walls, right? Wait, that was spiderman. Hmm. Don't know. I'll find out. I know someone who was obsessed with him.

I'm glad Stinkerbelle is ok. And the scratching posts are wonderful! Also, a small regular cardboard box is my cats favorite place ever. Either inside, or upside down so they can lay on top of it. They love to be higher. Also, any piece of black clothing should attract her, too. *grin*

As for #5, heh, join the club. *smooch*

kim (weltek) said...

90% of the time I rise to greet someone because I think it's a matter of equal treatment to me. I like to show respect and it puts me on even keel with the boys club.

If I were Nicole and wearing that outfit and it was a constant up/down, I probably wouldn't either. I would think that giving full attention with seated body language would've been enough.

I hate that vets think we can prevent cats from jumping. Silly vets.

mtw said...

Kim, there is no boys club. That is a myth! ;-)

I have researched this etiquette question exhaustively because I really wanted to know the answer. I can definitively state it's unclear whether she was being rude.

It used to be acceptable for a woman to remain seated while being introduced to a man, but now, a woman is generally expected to stand for an introduction to a male who is standing.

The exception would be if there are numerous introductions happening as may have been the case here. A woman is not expected to bob up and down from her seat for introductions.

And I'm pretty sure Batman had no superpowers. Only whatever his wealth could buy!

mtw said...

I think the Batman question was the most random question I've ever seen in our bloggy world. :-)

Anonymous said...

Perhaps that's why Adam is just an intern. *grin*

I don't think it's rude, but I really don't know. Perhaps this would be a good question for Augie.

I have no idea about Batman. Maybe his super power was making those comments appear on the screen.

Yay for Stinkerbelle. *kitty smooches*

Swami said...

A woman may remain seated at her option unless the person she is meeting is much older or seriously 'outranks' her socially. In that case she should stand. It would be rare for a young woman like Nicole to greet a large number of people and not be required by the rules of etiquette to stand at least a few times. I say she rude and quite full of herself.

Good for Stinkerbelle. She is instinctively exercising her stiff muscles.

Batman had no super powers. He just had some cool, ahead of its time technology and really good body armour.

arkie said...

That's what I was thinking (about Batman) - that he didn't actually have any superpowers, just lots of gadgets and was good in a fight.