When did I become the source for advice for the lovelorn?

I find this very strange.

My friend, J, has met a couple of guys online at a game website. She's really into both of them. She keeps asking me for advice. She convinced me to come to the website to play cards with her, and has "introduced" me to her guys. Now, in addition to J asking me for advice on the relationships, and what should she do, one of the guys has started talking to me, wanting my advice and opinion on this relationship.

What really makes this whole thing bizarre, is they are asking someone who hasn't been in a relationship of any type for almost 13 years. And the last relationship I was in, was not a very good one. So, WHY would anyone take my advice?

It really sucks. J is my friend, and I feel that my first loyalty should be to her. But I really feel bad for the guy who is asking me for help. She thinks he's a total player, and doesn't trust him. But she's the one who has lied to him already, and keeps playing head games with him. She says she really loves this one, but feels more comfortable with the other. I hate that she is hurting Joseph. And she is hurting him. She doesn't think she is, but I know what he tells me.

UGH!!!!

Even more bizarre to me is I am actually taking the man's side in this. How the hell did that happen??? I never take the man's side. And yet, in this instance, I just would like to smack Jessica, and tell her to either commit to Joseph, or let him go. He doesn't deserve to be treated like this. No one deserves to be treated like this. To have someone just toy with you, and keep you on a string, is just horrible.