Thursday, September 29, 2005

Lookie, lookie!



Look what was waiting for me when I got home this evening! I don't know who sent them, the card didn't have a name, only C & S. Which has me totally baffled. But I'm not going to spend a lot of time trying to figure out who C & S are, because I know for me, it's about giving someone pleasure, even if they don't know who did it. I love the roses. And if C & S happen to be someone who reads this blog, thank you! And if you want to own up to it, feel free. But if you want to remain all secretive and stuff, that's fine, too. Just know you completely made my day. Thank you, thank you, thank you!

*smooches*

Tuesday, September 27, 2005

bit of an update

OK, I hadn't responded to Canada Guy's spammy email that I received last night/this morning. So, he just sent me an email through the dating website, wanting to know if I received his email, because he hasn't got a reply yet. I have to say, this expectation of an instant response skeeves me out just a little. (BTW, in our brief time of communicating, this is the 2nd time I've gotten an email because I haven't responded yet.)

I told a friend once, when giving her advice on her lovelife, that there is a fine line between romantic/charming/isn't that sweet? and creepy/stalkerish behavior. What do you think?

Or am I just being a socially inept clod, who really should have already responded?

Spam or not spam? That is the question...

So, I had decided to give Canada guy some more time, to see if my opinion would change... I was starting to perhaps become a little interested, so I went ahead, and gave him my email address. He sends me an email, blah blah blah, I think you're interesting, blah blah blah, and then the message goes to this:

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Then more blah blah blah, questions to get to know me, blah blah blah...

He spammed me, didn't he? And the bad thing is, I gave him one of my real email addresses, not the yahoo. Well, I might just have to give all the important people a new email, and delete this one off of my account. This really pisses me. My stupidity is what really pisses me. That's it. I'm sticking to Ireland guy. He may not answer emails very frequently, but at least he doesn't spam me.

Edited to add: And Buggy would love this... The email? comes across as being from "Precious Moments".

Sunday, September 25, 2005

blog ideas

So, I was visiting thedailymeme.com, and noticed another website listed. blogideas.com, for when you don't know what to blog about. Some of the suggestions really stood out to me.

Pickles: Friend or Foe?

Wealth is a state of mind.

Greatest moment: don't leave anything out.

Grossest thing you have ever seen.

The perfect pizza.

Experiment: How many fishsticks fit in your mouth?

Who would you want to be tied to for 24 hours?

So, I want each of you that visit this blog to pick one of those topics and either blog about it in your blog, or post something here in comments. Have fun!

Saturday, September 24, 2005

quizzie time

You Are Chinese Food
Exotic yet ordinary.People think they've had enough of you, but they're back for more in an hour.


What Your Sleeping Position Says

You are calm and rational.
You are also giving and kind - a great friend.
You are easy going and trusting.
However, you are too sensible to fall for mind games.


Your Outrageous Name is:

Betty Humpter


HOBBES!!!
You are HOBBES! My personal favorite. You like to
eat, sleep, and live a good life. Me too.


Which CALVIN & HOBBES character YOU?
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hug from behind
hug from behind - you like to feel what the other
person is feeling and see things how they see
them. you tend to be serious and emotional.


What Sign of Affection Are You?
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Wednesday, September 21, 2005

For my friend

I think these lyrics say it very well...

Everybody Hurts by REM
When the day is long and the night, the night is yours alone,
When you're sure you've had enough of this life, well hang on
Don't let yourself go, 'cause everybody cries and everybody hurts sometimes

Sometimes everything is wrong. Now it's time to sing along
When your day is night alone, (hold on, hold on)
If you feel like letting go, (hold on)
When you think you've had too much of this life, well hang on

'Cause everybody hurts. Take comfort in your friends
Everybody hurts. Don't throw your hand. Oh, no. Don't throw your hand
If you feel like you're alone, no, no, no, you are not alone

If you're on your own in this life, the days and nights are long,
When you think you've had too much of this life to hang on

Well, everybody hurts sometimes,
Everybody cries. And everybody hurts sometimes
And everybody hurts sometimes. So, hold on, hold on
Hold on, hold on, hold on, hold on, hold on, hold on
Everybody hurts. You are not alone

I love you. You are a beautiful person, and I hope you know how much you are loved, and I hope you don't shut yourself away. I would miss you, and I know so would others.

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Strange vibes... Everything just feels weird right now. It's funny how much people I've never met face to face have come to mean so much to me. So much, that when they have too much going on in their day to day lives that they don't have time for the people on the other side of that computer, I miss them. And it kinda hurts. It's like getting the silent treatment, and you have no idea what's wrong.

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I really should be working on an email to this guy I've "met" at the dating service. But should it really be "work" to write an email? I'm just not feeling it. But I know a lot of that is because I'm just so out of practice with the whole socialization, just talking to get to know someone. I know I should be asking questions of this guy to get to know him, but I don't know what to ask.

Monday, September 19, 2005

Swiped from Momma's Blog

My Superhero Identity

Name: Citronella
Secret Identity: Umm, hello??? It's a secret!!! *rolls eyes*
Special Power: Lightning Finger
Transportation: Nuclear Jet
Weapon: Psychotronic Pistol
Costume: Vinyl Gauntlets
Sidekick: Hermione
Nemesis: Arnold the Mad
Tragic Flaw: Addicted to squash
Favorite Food: Cheetos

Want yours? Go here: http://www.humorscope.com/hero.html


My other Superhero Identity...

Name: Ice Wolf
Secret Identity: *rolls eyes* Did you really think I was going to tell?
Special Power: Power Tentacles
Transportation: Nuclear Car
Weapon: Psionic Blunderbuss
Costume: Alligator Mask
Sidekick: Bones
Nemesis: Jasmine the Mad
Tragic Flaw: Fear of rodents
Favorite Food: Spaghetti

Thursday, September 15, 2005

pics

Tampa Bay













































































View from the plane

Florida

Looking out, seeing the clouds below, I wish I had the words to describe what I was seeing, the thoughts that were running through my head. Seeing the gulf, having that little twinge of "what if something went wrong with the plane?" Had to put that thought out of my mind immediately. The water, being so high above it, looked like pebbled vinyl. Then later, some thinner clouds, all stretched out, made me think of a cobbled-stone path. The clouds I saw earlier, at the beginning of the flight, were fluffy, and such a pure white. At the time, I thought about how would I describe this? What words to convey the imagery? Like a field of sheep, like cotton candy, and so on. Then I realized that by dwelling on how I would say it, I was missing the wonder of it all. So what I couldn't come up with some clever, well-turned phrase? I was above the clouds - and it was so beautiful - I needed to just enjoy the view.

After landing in Tampa, I picked up my rental car and headed out to St. Pete. Driving over the bridge (Howard Frankland Bridge, I believe) that crosses over Tampa Bay, once again I was just in awe. I don't know if the water level is always that high, but at the beginning of the bridge, the bridge and the water appear to be at the same level. I'm not used to that. The bridges in Arkansas and Tennessee start elevating long before you even get even with the edge of the water. By the time you are actually crossing the water, you are much higher than the level of the water. But to be able to look out the window of the car, and see the bay, see the choppiness of the water, was something I never experienced. I probably spent equal amounts of time looking off to the side as I did looking ahead at the road as I was driving.

Getting into St Pete, checked into the hotel room, I sat down for a while and read the book I had started while on the plane. But I couldn't stand the thought of this possibly being my only trip to Florida, and not seeing SOMETHING of it. So I drove down to a park by the Bay. Unfortunately for me, I was on the wrong side of Florida to see the Ocean, and I was on the wrong side of the penisula that St Pete is on to even see the Gulf, but seeing the Bay was still cool. I took off my shoes and walked on the little beach by the park, and waded into the bay, and just walked along like that for a while. (On a side note, the Bay smells like rotten eggs. Or the beach did. Whatever it was that I was smelling, it was not pleasant.) While I was walking along the beach, and deciding if I really wanted to wade in something that obviously smelt so bad, a man comes walking onto the beach. He asked me if the water was ok, and I replied that I really didn't know. So, the man takes his socks off, and proceeds to wade out into the bay. I looked back and he had went out to waist deep, and seemed to be having a moment of silent rejoicing. I had my camera with me, and it was such a moving moment to me, that I snapped a picture.


I've cropped and enlarged the pic, so the image is better viewed. I was much further away than this would appear.


Of course, no trip taken by arkie can go smoothly. I normally always take an extra change of clothes, because, well, you just never know. Not this time. I was only going for one night (I had originally planned on staying over until Sunday morning, but family issues came up and dictated a change in plans), so I only packed one outfit. I needed to run by the office before I left for the airport, and decided to stop at Starbucks to get a Pumpkin Spice Latte. I didn't even make it out of the parking lot before I was wearing part of the latte. So... there I am, with coffee stains all over my shirt, and only have one shirt in my bag. So I had to stop at Target and buy another shirt. Luckily, I found one on the clearance rack for under $7. Since I still had quite a bit of the latte left to drink, I waited until I got to the airport to change. After changing my shirt, I got out of the car and caught the shuttle to the terminal. Now, because I can never be on time, either extremely early or running late, I was at the airport with 2 freaking hours to kill. Had I left with just enough time to get to the airport to check in and catch my flight, I would have run into buttloads of traffic and been late and missed the flight. I decide to go to one of the bars and have a drink. I have always said that I don't like Bloody Marys. The truth is, I have never had one. Until now. I was right. I don't like Bloody Marys. Blech! Nasty! I could only force about half of the drink down my throat. And people who know me, know I don't waste alcohol like that. *smile* There was another incident, but it would fall under the category of TMI and is kind of gross, so I won't share it.

The flight back was great, I was lucky enough to get a window seat again. But I messed up and sat too close to the wing to have a great view. I either had to look at half wing, half view or turn my head back and look out the window behind me. But it was still good. Seeing the clouds like that amazes me. The whole concept of flying is amazing. And then coming into Nashville, the sun had already set, and you could see all the city lights. Beautiful, just beautiful.

Saturday, September 10, 2005

Some people are just disgusting

Listening to the news tonight... Haven't these people been through more than enough? Several of the Katrina evacuees are staying in Memphis. Criminals are now targeting them. Per the news, they are looking for cars with Louisiana license plates, and either stealing the cars or whatever items are in them. I know, criminals don't give a damn about how their victims are already suffering, but it just tears me up to hear about people who have already been through hell, and shit like this happens to them.

More quizzes, or arkie needs to get a life





Sapphire
! You are most Like A Sapphire !
Dark, mysterious - but unforgettable. You have a
deep
beauty. Delicate, and shy you try to stay away from
the
limelight but often your intelligence puts you in
at the
deep end. You're like a Sapphire, because, your
beauty is priceless.
You're intelligent, full of opinions, and not
big-headed about it all.
Sometimes you need to put yourself out there, as
you can be a bit shy.
Congratulations ... You're the mysterious gem
everybody wants to have and learn more about.


?? Which Precious Gem Are You ??
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unicorn
You're like a Unicorn!


?? Which Mythical Creature Are You ??
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HASH(0x8bc78a4)
You are crazy. People avoid you because they are
scared they might catch whatever it is you
have. But at least you are unique!


Which Happy Bunny are you?
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ever have one of those moments...

when you know, you just KNOW, you have forgotten something? But for the life of you, you can't figure out what it is you have forgotten. And you know it's going to be bad if you can't remember. Well, that's what I'm going through right now.

Without getting too much into the personal details (*rolls eyes* - I can't believe I'm showing such restraint), let's just say it has to do with finances.
Angel_sea
Sea

?? Which Angel Or Demon Are You ??
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Morpheus
Morpheus

?? Which Of The Greek Gods Are You ??
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Waterfall
Waterfall

?? Which Natural Wonder Or Disaster Are You ??
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Season = Summer
You're Most Like The Season Summer ...
Whoa.... Passionate eh ?? Typically you're a fiery,
zesty dominant person. As the hottest season,
you certainly ooze Sex appeal. You have
confidence which draws people to you, and you
have the makings of a good leader.However sometimes your exterior is stronger then
you are and so you scare people off before they
can get close.
Well done... You're the most memorable of seasons
:)

?? Which Season Are You ??
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Thursday, September 08, 2005

Stolen from Mon's blog

1.What is the most adventurous thing you have ever done to your hair?
I dyed it purple once.
2.Who gave you your name, and how did they choose it? My dad, and it's the name of an ex-girlfriend.
3.What gives you the creeps? Pretty much any creepy-crawly type creature. And frogs.
4.What relative do you most resemble in personality? I would say my mom.
5.How did you come up with the name of your blog? Well, any time I start to tell a story or anything, I always end up rambling, and can never stay with what my original point was.

Sunday, September 04, 2005

Quotes from my calendar

This year's calendar was "Wild Words From Wild Women".

These were some of my favorite quotes from it. I have to admit, I don't know who some of the women being quoted are. Maybe I'll look some of them up on the 'net and learn a little.

"There are two kinds of people in the world. Those who love chocolate, and communists." ~~Leslie Moak Murray, cartoonist

"You can't be brave if you've only had wonderful things happen to you." ~~ Mary Tyler Moore

"Reserve your right to think, for even to think wrongly is better than not to think at all." ~~Hypatia, world-famous mathematician circa A.D. 400

"Trouble is part of your life, and if you don't share it, you don't give the person who loves you a chance to love you enough." ~~ Dinah Shore

"If you want something in life, you have to go out and get it, because it's just not going to come over and kiss you on your lips." ~~ Renee Scroggins, musician

Friday, September 02, 2005

anniversary

Glow posted something on her blog about what would have been an anniversary, and it got me to thinking. I'm coming up on what would have been my 16th wedding anniversary. But I'm so horrible with dates, that I can't remember without digging out the papers, when the exact date is. I think we were married on the 3rd. But it might have been the 4th. Or it could have been the 2nd. *shrugs* Oh well, the important date is 5/13 - the date our divorce was final. (I think. *grin*)